Trial of the Crusader

This is a fairly easy raid to run if you are with others that know what they are doing... I only partially know what is going on...
Today, my new guild, Up the Ante, got an ICC 25 man together... mostly pug. Jojo and I weren't invited along with a few others so we had to do something else even though we were really looking forward to going to ICC... Especially me cause I went and learned the fights for it... It bugs me that they are trying to get more people... but how do they expect people to stay, let alone prove themselves, if you don't let them get involved with things... Anyway... I realized they are all teenagers still in high school and that is an entirely differeny kind of drama... Back on focus... Jojo and I join up in this TOC25... I know the fights up to PVP... however, I kinda understand the first part of twins and some of the king scarab thing from watching Jojo. After finally finding people in our fail ass server (Lothar), we set out and get inside. There is normally at least 1 person that tosses down a feast, but we didn't get that. I don't have any on my toons and Jojo only has some on Moo. Mage puts down a table just as we are about to start. Big whoop.
First fight.... Gormok is up and no one is taking down the snobolds. I'm used to being in great groups and never had problems with the snobolds... but in the end, we kill him. The second fight, Acidmaw and Dreadmaw... wiped. Second attempt... no one was killing snobolds yet again... I had my first snobold on my, but it instantly head cracked me just as I was trying to get out of fire... so I died within a few seconds. I barely saw any heals out or anything.
In conclusion to that bitchery... I'm made of fail. I asked the raid if there were any off tanks to take the snobolds off... needless to say I was laughed at. Jojo informed me AFTER the fight that I'm suppose to run to the front and basically let the AOE damage from tanks and such just spot them down. Like I said... I've never been in a fail ass group that wipes on the first few rounds of ToC10/25. Snobolds barely last long enough for me to even notice if it was on me or not. Not to mention, I've been healed through those things.
I guess I should read and watch some of the fights on You Tube before I actually go in and do these things... Regardless of the fact ICC fights seem to be easy to follow... and I winged it my first time. Really should watch Jojo do them more now.
Now its time to go figure out how to work with Wintergrasp and our disgustingly small numbers of horde on this server... (70% alli / 30% horde; and falling)